The big question is, “Why are men interested in some women over others?”
And the answer has to go beyond just “looks” – although that is an important factor to men.
The real answer has to dive deeper, into what men are actually looking for in a long-term partner (and short-term too!)
Maybe you feel like you don’t know why men are deeply attracted to some women and not to others. It could feel like you’re flying blind, and you don’t know how to get the man you want interested in you.
There are certain feature if a lady exhibits will make her very adorable by men around her. It is a universal traits and is highly essential in a marriage. If you want to know, read on.
Men feel respect as love.
This is the most important character a man desires in a women. But It have gone beyond the common respect you know, in this article today, I will diset respect in a dimension you have not seen before.
He needs you to be Deeply Attracted To him
I want to address this head on because I want to help you be as effective as possible: men want to be attracted to you and being attractive does have an impact on men.
This planet is filled with different kinds of men who all have different kinds of tastes and preferences for what they find attractive.
A big mistake that women make is that they try to become a certain image of attractiveness that may or may not be them, instead of the most attractive version of themselves.
Doing what you can to be the most attractive version of you possible is only going to increase your options, increase your power, and increase your effectiveness with attracting the person you ultimately want to attract.
Here’s exactly how to put your energy towards being the most attractive version of yourself that you can be:
- Put effort into your wardrobe and wear flattering clothing – clothing that makes you feel good and that you feel sexy in.
- Focus on feeling good about yourself – a positive attitude is more important to overall attractiveness than a dress size or two.
- Put effort towards being in shape and looking a way that makes YOU feel happy (not a way that some scummy magazine is telling you to look). This helps you feel great about yourself as well.
If you put effort towards those areas of your life, you will become the best and most attractive version of yourself that you can be – and that’s what the men who will be attracted to you really care about the most.
Again, When you talk to him, try to discover about his passion, your goal is to find out why he’s passionate about.
When you know the answer to that question, you’ll know a whole lot more about him, who he really is and what makes him go.
It also makes him feel a much deeper connection to you. If you put in the time to find out why he’s so passionate about his favorite subject, he’ll feel like you get him as a person, on a deep deep level.
He Wants A Woman Who Has Dreams And Goals For Herself
From our comprehensive research, we found out that from the men’s point of view – The most perfect woman on earth is a woman with Beauty and Brain.
Men adore women that have dreams, goals and objectives for their life. On an advanced level, It is important that the life dreams of the man and that of the woman should co-exist. And any good dream can co-exist together.
What I’m saying is that in any relationship you want to last, you have to take some time and find out whether your goals and ambitions in life match.
If they do, great.
The best, longest lasting, most passionate connections are between people who are moving in the same direction in life. Who hold the same values. Who want the same things out of life.
Men are looking for someone who they can count on to back them up – who they know supports them and their direction in life.
That doesn’t mean you don’t have goals – it means your goals align with his and the both of you is moving towards a particular direction together, supporting each other all the way.
If your goal is life partnership and deep love that lasts a lifetime, then this is extremely important.
If your goal is just to hook up (which is totally fine), then this is less important.
It’s all about recognizing what his vision of his ideal life is, and seeing whether that matches with yours.
For instance, let’s say he wants to work really hard, retire, and then travel the world. Does that match up with what you want?
If it does, great! Your visions are aligned with each other and you can work together towards your goals. You’re a good match.
If it doesn’t, let’s say you’d rather settle down and raise a family in one place rather than travel, then your visions aren’t aligned. It won’t feel to him like you’re helping him move towards his dreams (just like it won’t feel like he’s helping you towards your dreams either).
The important thing is to make sure your goals and dreams line up with each other – it will save you a ton of trouble down the line.
He Wants A Good Listener
Obviously, I’m not saying that you should just listen to him and whatever he says at the expense of expressing yourself – that’s ridiculous.
What I’m sharing are the things that you can do with a man to make him feel a deep personal connection to you – that will make him want to bring your lives closer together and adore you like no other woman.
Men will bond with people who they feel that they can share anything with. They don’t bond with someone and THEN open up to them, opening up to you is how a man bonds.
If you want him to bond with you and become more intimate with you, connect with him when he’s most happy and excited to share with you.
When you do that, two very important things happen.
First, like I said before – he starts to bond with you. He notices that you’re really listening to him and that you’re engaging with him about things that he cares about – and that draws him closer to you.
Second, it gives him a chance to drop the “mask” that he puts on for the rest of the world and show you who he really is underneath.
There is nothing more important to your long-term chances with a man than him knowing he can be his true self around you.
If you accept who he really is when he’s not wearing his mask (without a hint of judgment – judgment will shut him down and drive him away from you in a blink), he will feel deeply, truly connected to you.